From Bartender to Alcohol Freedom Coach
For 12 years, I was a bartender, witnessing firsthand how addictive alcohol can be while also being one of its victims. I know all too well the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of alcohol.
You see, I was on a dark road toward destruction until one day, everything changed. I had lost my sense of self and was fearful of where my life was heading. At 54, depression had set in, and I was using alcohol daily to cope. I was desperate for change.
For 12 years, I was a bartender, witnessing firsthand how addictive alcohol can be while also being one of its victims. I know all too well the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of alcohol.
You see, I was on a dark road toward destruction until one day, everything changed. I had lost my sense of self and was fearful of where my life was heading. At 54, depression had set in, and I was using alcohol daily to cope. I was desperate for change.
I knew alcohol had taken control of my life and that I had become its prisoner. Then one day, I discovered the key to free myself from the chains that had bound me for so many years. Guided by a science-based methodology, I broke free from the cocoon I had been living in. I left the alcohol train behind and stepped into a life of true freedom and vitality.
The transformation I experienced inspired me to become a coach and help others create a better life, one that isn't dictated by alcohol but is instead filled with hope, peace, joy, and love.
Years ago, the thought of a day without alcohol was unimaginable. Now, the thought of a day with it is inconceivable. Through what I have learned from a grace-led, science-based approach and Affective Liminal Psychology, I can help you cut back, moderate, or eliminate alcohol completely. You are empowered to choose what you want and take control of your relationship with alcohol based on the work we will do together.
About Me
Family
I am a mother of four adult children, with my youngest in college. I am divorced and living as an empty nester—though I can't say I'm entirely alone, as I have six cats who keep me company.
University
As a proud graduate of the University of Alabama, I absolutely love my alma mater, especially during college football season, which is my favorite time of year. One thing is for sure: now that alcohol isn't controlling my life, I am actually able to remember the games I watch!
Purpose
My career has been diverse, with experience in advertising sales, business ownership, and bartending in the restaurant industry. I now truly believe I’ve found my calling with coaching.
Passions
In my spare time, I love to golf, and I must admit, my game is improving without the beer in my cooler. I also enjoy pickleball, yoga, hiking, dancing, music, and have recently taken up knitting, which I love!
Freedom
Prior to finding my freedom from alcohol, I was a big-time partier, always with a beer in my hand. I love that my life has dramatically changed now that alcohol no longer controls me, allowing me to live life on my own terms!
In the Spotlight
Listen to my podcast interviews and read articles featuring my story, experiences, and journey to living life free from alcohol.
My Coaching
I have the experience to guide people through personal transformations.
Compassionate
You’ll be met with understanding, empathy, and genuine care as you navigate your journey. There is no shame or judgment here, only a safe space to explore, grow, and create meaningful change.
Non-judgmental
You can be completely honest about where you are without fear of criticism. I’ll listen with an open heart and support you exactly where you are, while helping you discover what’s possible.
Tailored to You
Your journey is uniquely yours, and your coaching should be too. We’ll focus on your experiences, beliefs, goals, and challenges to create an approach that feels right for you.
Through my personal experiences and knowledge, you will be guided with love and compassion to achieve your goals. Having walked through the doors to freedom from the control of alcohol and transforming my beliefs, I am dedicated to helping you on your journey.
My Philosophy
At Coaching By Jacki, I believe that changing your relationship with alcohol opens the door to a world of possibilities. Through mindful awareness, and the power of decisions, you will break free from habits, behaviors or beliefs that are not serving you.
Coaching will be 1:1 on Zoom, phone or face-to-face, with all coaching calls strictly confidential.
Let's start your journey together
Are you ready to transform your relationship with alcohol and unlock your full potential? Are you ready to discover the freedom and joy that comes from living a life where alcohol is no longer in control?
I’m here to guide you every step of the way. For more information or to schedule a free coaching call, contact me today.
You’re just one click away from a new beginning.
Copyright © 2026 Coaching by Jacki. All rights reserved.
Copyright © 2026 Coaching by Jacki. All rights reserved.